Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Benjamin Cockrill with the following comment:
My late mother's family name is Cockrill and I am a direct descendant of this branch of the Cockrill family. Most of the family is buried in Pakenham Churchyard. I am in Australia so this presents some difficulties of visiting and photographing the grave myself. I intend to add the image to my Ancestry webpage, suitable acknowledged